Your relationship has come in its fifth year

and the two of you have planned

a romantic dinner to mark the occasion.

Here are 6 such things that men are all the time failing to say, but can’t seem to get it out of their system.

1- Why can’t I earn extra than you: We might have development into an era where we witness men and women successive in the skilled sphere but regressive notions continue to exist. A Business journalist believe that somewhere the usual notion of a man being the breadwinner and woman as the caretaker of the household still holds true. “They will not acknowledge a woman’s success in public for the acceptance will injure their pride. On the face of it they might cheer you but within, they battle with their own insecurity. A woman on the other hand basks in her man’s success and can’t help shout out from rooftops.”

2- Fantasizing about another woman while in the act: Have you ever feel a vein of divide running through that intimate moment where you are in his arms and about to break into a romantic kiss? A freelance writer feels that “guys cannot verbalize that their mental faculties are fixated on some other girl while being physically cozy with you.”

3- Please let’s not talk about my ex: This is certainly an aware chapter in one’s life, the pages of which intimidate to open up massacring details. Past is always sad and men are never really comfortable letting their partners take a peep for the fear of offending them.

4- I always know what to do: Guys, let’s face it, are averse to confessing. The idea of opening up about a problem, whether a crisis in the family or a bad day at work, to their partners sends a tingle of unease down his back. A media professional, who is living in with her boyfriend for the last few years, feels that guys think they would be dubbed a loser if they sought their partner’s help with anything. They see it as a challenge to their ‘masculinity‘.

5- Calling friends over without former notice: Guys don’t think twice before calling up their group of friends over for a meal. The wife/girlfriend in question is notified on the same only at the penultimate moment when it gets too much to handle for him. Men don’t realize that casually asking friends to drop by can make women go through a disturbing time deciding what to serve. And it obviously drives her barking mad!

6- How many digits in your income: “What’s your salary package,” a matter that every guy dreads and wishes to evade more than a question like “Are you gay?” They will inform you about a salary increase or a promotion at work but will never divulge the statistical details even if it is good. A media expert, says, “Guys are competitive even with their partners and are wary to disclose details they feel will make us judge them. That’s why they can never give definite answers and are always vague about their salary structure.”

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